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YOU DON’T LOVE HIM ANYMORE YET YOU CAN’T WALK AWAY? HERE’S WHY AND WHAT TO DO It is very common in today’s world to still find one’s self attached to an ex-lover even long after love is dead and gone. It is one thing to fall in love. It is another thing to stay in love. It is yet another thing to fall out of love when things probably don’t work out as envisioned.  While falling in love is easy, staying in love is certainly not a walkover. But the hardest part of the cycle is falling out of love.  Many people find themselves stuck to someone they don’t love anymore, and they can’t seem to understand why. Well, this article will tell you why and point you in the direction of what to do. ----- FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN One reason why you find it hard to walk away from an affair you no longer derive pleasure from is the sheer fear of the unknown. A popular saying holds that “the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know.” So you find yourself not desirin...

Economic Success Doesn't Necessarily Guarantee Happiness, But Somethings Are Worth Knowing In Other To Avoid Sadness. In today’s world, success is not optional.  Everyone with a working mind wants to succeed. That is why we have different people doing different things to achieve success.  Some think that going to school and graduating with good grades is the key to securing a good job and becoming financially stable.  Others learn different trades, maximize their gifts and talents, delve into one business or the other, and some even get their hands dirty to achieve success. Since success is more like the only way to go, not so many people want to have any strings attached to failures. Actually, nothing is attractive about a failure.  So it is understandable if everyone wants to identify with successful people only. But in a bid to not be “unequally yoked together with failures,” many have skipped noticing potentially successful people beca...

HAVING A THIRD PARTY IN RELATIONSHIP IS DANGEROUS  A popular saying holds that “no man is an Island.” From that saying, it’s clear that humans are not created to be loners.  This school of thought has reflected in many studies; ranging from studies of lay men to studies by renowned professors. But you will agree with me that “while it is okay to entertain the company of several persons, there are certain companies one may entertain that may turn out to be detrimental, one of which could be the company of BESTIES.” Even the all-knowing, all-having, all-encompassing God becomes terribly jealous at the sight of another god being entertained by those who supposedly belong to Him. There are several biblical accounts of how God brought to ruin those of His people who entertained other gods.  There is even an account of how God brought one of those other gods to ruin by causing it to fall facedown without any push or some sort of physical impact. That’s what je...

The world will agree with me that anger has been the bane of many promising affairs, marriages, etc. I mean, after a series of lovey-dovey moments shared with a significant other, the one thing that could step in and ruin everything is that monster called “anger”. A lot of ex-couples owe their divorces to anger. The case is no different with ex-lovers who could not simply bring themselves to cut down on their ego but rather let anger tear them apart. The sad part of the whole anger brouhaha is that the people plagued with anger issues can hardly tell that they are, as their anger-based actions and decisions always seem to them like the “way to go.” Even when reality hits them after a detrimental anger-based action or decision, they still cannot bring themselves to drop the habit. It becomes more like a strong virus that cannot be removed by even the most renowned antivirus programs. But I’ve got good news for you! Just as the saying goes that “a problem known is half solved,” t...