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HOW TO LET GO OF A BESTIE AND REALLY FOCUS MORE WITH YOUR PARTNER

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In one of my previous articles which clearly spelled out the dangers of having a bestie in a relationship, it was crystal clear how destructive the presence of a bestie can be to even the most promising affairs. Having perused that piece of writing and considered its projections, it is only normal that one who places premium value on his or her affair will want to see to the longevity and sustenance of that affair by getting rid of besties or any appearance of besties (if there was any). It is in that regard that I thought it wise to put up another piece that points to the steps to take in putting besties at bay. It is an agreeable fact that letting go of people with whom one shares a strong bond or connection usually isn’t a walkover. Some newlyweds even find it hard to completely disconnect from their parents a couple of years after moving in with their spouses due to their strong bond with their parents, developed over the years. But even married couples who are out to achieve marit...
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CORONA VIRUS OR NO CORONA VIRUS, HERE IS THE DOWNSIDE OF SHAKING HANDS WITH PEOPLE

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W e are told that a wise king doesn't seek for war, but must always be ready for it.  Corona Virus or no Corona Virus, pandemic or no pandemic, we should always be ready to take care of our health and be mindful of our actions one unto another so as to save ourselves from miseries and regrets.  Handshake is what we often overlooked. Shaking hands with people may be a means of exchanging greetings with people, but that does not rule out the fact that it has its downsides. The United States president, Donald Trump is said to be in the habit of not shaking hands with people, especially random folks. One could call it pride or superiority complex. But the fact is, shaking hands with certain people could render a person susceptible to transmittable infections or dirtiness of some sort. The US President Donald Trump, known to be a man of good hygiene, particularly doesn’t shake hands with people in an effort to stay and keep staying infection-free. It is said that “health is wealth....
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10 REASONS A MAN SHOULD NEVER STRIKE A WOMAN (+ BONUS)

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According to a domestic violence assistance organization, one in four women will experience domestic violence during her lifetime. This goes to show that despite the society’s intolerance for domestic abuse, it still manages to own the day in some way, somewhat starting to seem like a hopeless situation. Most men have gotten so accustomed to taking it out on women physically whenever it gets on their nerves. It is more like an epidemic, to say the least. But even in the midst of the brouhaha, men can afford to put the silliness of striking women aside, ultimately changing the tides and letting to rest the issue of men striking women. But it will take more than mere instances to achieve such. One of the ways by which such can be achieved is to outline certain factors that picture the downsides of striking women. No doubts, it may make a man feel like the ultimate warrior, but that is not what matters at all. The receiver of this brutality (the woman) is not to be left without...
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WHY IT IS HARD TO LET HIM GO EVEN WHEN YOU NO LONGER LOVE HIM ANYMORE.

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YOU DON’T LOVE HIM ANYMORE YET YOU CAN’T WALK AWAY? HERE’S WHY AND WHAT TO DO It is very common in today’s world to still find one’s self attached to an ex-lover even long after love is dead and gone. It is one thing to fall in love. It is another thing to stay in love. It is yet another thing to fall out of love when things probably don’t work out as envisioned.  While falling in love is easy, staying in love is certainly not a walkover. But the hardest part of the cycle is falling out of love.  Many people find themselves stuck to someone they don’t love anymore, and they can’t seem to understand why. Well, this article will tell you why and point you in the direction of what to do. ----- FEAR OF THE UNKNOWN One reason why you find it hard to walk away from an affair you no longer derive pleasure from is the sheer fear of the unknown. A popular saying holds that “the devil you know is better than the angel you don’t know.” So you find yourself not desirin...
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HOW TO KNOW THAT YOUR HUSBAND-TO-BE, FIANCÉ, OR BOYFRIEND WILL SUCCEED IN LIFE (In the context of Economic Success)

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Economic Success Doesn't Necessarily Guarantee Happiness, But Somethings Are Worth Knowing In Other To Avoid Sadness. In today’s world, success is not optional.  Everyone with a working mind wants to succeed. That is why we have different people doing different things to achieve success.  Some think that going to school and graduating with good grades is the key to securing a good job and becoming financially stable.  Others learn different trades, maximize their gifts and talents, delve into one business or the other, and some even get their hands dirty to achieve success. Since success is more like the only way to go, not so many people want to have any strings attached to failures. Actually, nothing is attractive about a failure.  So it is understandable if everyone wants to identify with successful people only. But in a bid to not be “unequally yoked together with failures,” many have skipped noticing potentially successful people beca...
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HAVING A BESTIE IN RELATIONSHIP IS DANGEROUS

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HAVING A THIRD PARTY IN RELATIONSHIP IS DANGEROUS  A popular saying holds that “no man is an Island.” From that saying, it’s clear that humans are not created to be loners.  This school of thought has reflected in many studies; ranging from studies of lay men to studies by renowned professors. But you will agree with me that “while it is okay to entertain the company of several persons, there are certain companies one may entertain that may turn out to be detrimental, one of which could be the company of BESTIES.” Even the all-knowing, all-having, all-encompassing God becomes terribly jealous at the sight of another god being entertained by those who supposedly belong to Him. There are several biblical accounts of how God brought to ruin those of His people who entertained other gods.  There is even an account of how God brought one of those other gods to ruin by causing it to fall facedown without any push or some sort of physical impact. That’s what je...
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THE 7 WAYS TO KNOW YOU HAVE ANGER ISSUES AND WHAT TO DO TO SOLVE IT

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The world will agree with me that anger has been the bane of many promising affairs, marriages, etc. I mean, after a series of lovey-dovey moments shared with a significant other, the one thing that could step in and ruin everything is that monster called “anger”. A lot of ex-couples owe their divorces to anger. The case is no different with ex-lovers who could not simply bring themselves to cut down on their ego but rather let anger tear them apart. The sad part of the whole anger brouhaha is that the people plagued with anger issues can hardly tell that they are, as their anger-based actions and decisions always seem to them like the “way to go.” Even when reality hits them after a detrimental anger-based action or decision, they still cannot bring themselves to drop the habit. It becomes more like a strong virus that cannot be removed by even the most renowned antivirus programs. But I’ve got good news for you! Just as the saying goes that “a problem known is half solved,” t...
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12 REASONS MOST UNEDUCATED WOMEN FIND GOOD HUSBANDS WHILE THE EDUCATED ONES REMAIN UNMARRIED

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The mystery behind uneducated women ending up with good husbands while educated women remain somewhat irredeemably stuck in spinsterhood is a longstanding one. It appears to have been unraveled by many who took a shot at explaining why such ironic fate befalls educated women. In Nigeria, the average man’s type of woman must qualify in cooking, character, faith, and sometimes beauty, and then EDUCATION. That being the case, one would expect that the marriage market is rigged to favor women who have passed through the four walls of the school, especially to the university level. But quite ironically, these sets of women happen to be the ones who have a hard time securing a good man for themselves. Meanwhile, the “not so educated” or perhaps illiterate women are getting picked and married back to back by men, many of which belong to the upper class of wealth. The thing with most educated women is that they let their academic achievement get to their heads. The fact that a man ...
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We Believe in Challenging the Status quo

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We Believe in Challenging the Status quo and Shaping the World for Good Going through life without fully participating in the enormous wealth and happiness it brings is not what it  was meant   to be  in the first creation.  We were born to live a life of greatness and  to be  happy as we transcend towards fulfilling our purpose. But, oftentimes, lots of factors robbed us off these privileges and makes it seems as though only a selected few of humans were nominated to take part in all the wealth and happiness life has to offer in this world. Well, be it as it may, the good news is, as long as death has not found us yet, we still have the choice to decide if we are going to allow circumstances or factors beyond our control to weigh us down or we are going to say, enough is enough, wealth and happiness is our God-given right to posses. But as we seek to pursuit our dreams and our aspirations, happi...
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