12 REASONS MOST UNEDUCATED WOMEN FIND GOOD HUSBANDS WHILE THE EDUCATED ONES REMAIN UNMARRIED

The mystery behind uneducated women ending up with good husbands while educated women remain somewhat irredeemably stuck in spinsterhood is a longstanding one.

It appears to have been unraveled by many who took a shot at explaining why such ironic fate befalls educated women. In Nigeria, the average man’s type of woman must qualify in cooking, character, faith, and sometimes beauty, and then EDUCATION.

That being the case, one would expect that the marriage market is rigged to favor women who have passed through the four walls of the school, especially to the university level. But quite ironically, these sets of women happen to be the ones who have a hard time securing a good man for themselves. Meanwhile, the “not so educated” or perhaps illiterate women are getting picked and married back to back by men, many of which belong to the upper class of wealth.

The thing with most educated women is that they let their academic achievement get to their heads.

The fact that a man desires an educated woman of class as a wife does not mean that he is asking for more than he can bear, as most educated women make it appear. A man’s greatest need from a woman is respect. But what we see today is that women who mount academic heights don’t deem it needful to respect men anymore, unlike the uneducated ones.

While an exposed, educated, influential, may become full of herself and undermine a man in one way or the other, a less or uneducated woman will more likely tow the “down to earth” path, giving honor to who honor is due and not trying to rise above her place as a woman. They often come off as the true definition of “weaker vessels,” which is a “soft spot” to a man. But at the sight of the opposite, men take a hike, hence educated women remaining unmarried.

This piece will attempt to more deeply unravel the mystery behind the rampant marriages of uneducated women to good men and why the case is not the same with educated women. It will explore the various reasons marital fortune keeps shinning in the direction of uneducated women while the opposite plagues educated women.

They include:

1. PRIDE (EGOISTIC BEHAVIOR):

It is said that “power corrupts,” and like they say; “knowledge is power.” Education breeds knowledge, which gives power.

While this power can be channeled in the positive, most women who wield it end up getting corrupt by becoming egoistic.

That is something a man can’t stand, no matter his attraction to a woman.

Meanwhile, the uneducated are like the woman from first Peter chapter 3.

2. UNNECESSARY ARGUMENT:

Women often attempt to have a say by treating a man to a word battle. They often underestimate how much quietness means to a man. Such lousy women aren’t a delight to men.

But the uneducated ones literally worship men like a king to be treated. Against such, men have no defense.

3. CONFRONTATION (ROBBING SHOULDERS): 

This evident in the story of biblical Vashti who being Queen, flaunted the King’s order to have her presence at his banquet.

Rubbing shoulders with the king made her lose her place in the palace. But the lowly Esther was found delightful by the same king on account of her submissiveness, hence her replacing Vashti as the Queen.

Men don’t want unsubmissive women who contend with them for authority.

4. TAKING DECISIONS WITHOUT THE CONSENT OF THE MAN WITH THE THOUGHT THAT THEY KNOW TOO MUCH:

This is a total disregarding of a man, something most uneducated women hardly do.

5. CONDESCENDING ATTITUDE TOWARDS OTHERS.

Wisdom beholds that you judge a potential spouse’s attitude according to how they treat others, not how they treat you.

Men, in particular, are always sensitive to how women treat the people around them.

A condescending attitude towards others surely won’t speak well of a woman, no matter what.

6. THEY SLEEP A LOT WITH MEN IN HOPE THEY'LL FIND THE ONE THEY CAN TRAP:

In an effort to secure a “worthy man for a woman of her status,” many educated women fling their legs open for men who seem to meet their puffed up emotional requirement.

This is regarded by men as prostitution. When the first man hits and escapes, they move onto another, and no real man wants to marry a devalued woman (except those ones who are yet to discover themselves).

7. THEY ARE MOSTLY BUSYBODY: 

Most educated women are full of themselves, and that is repelling to a man. On the flip side, most uneducated women are down to earth, which is what men want.

8. THE UNEDUCATED WOMEN ARE MORE HELPFUL TO A MAN BECAUSE THEY ARE VERY HARD WORKING:

While an uneducated woman will be ready to get dirty to help out a man, an educated woman will be more concerned about her class, considering herself too big.

In a worst-case scenario, they may not even be as hardworking as the uneducated ones, which is why they can’t really help a man out in many ways except contending with him.

9. UNEDUCATED WOMEN GIVE OUT SEX WHOLEHEARTEDLY:

Sex with an uneducated woman can be all shades of “cloud nine.” There’s no holding back, she’s always ready for sexual adventures, very ready to go all the way to afford her man ultimate sexual satisfaction.

But an educated woman can become selective with sex positions and unwilling to go all the way in affording her man sexual satisfaction. They seem to want to have the final say over how things go, and that is not something men appreciate at all.

10. THE UNEDUCATED WOMEN ARE MORE EQUIPPED WITH COMMON SENSE:

Common sense may sound as though it is common, but it is not very common to get even after so many years of schooling. And this where most educated women get all wrong.

But the uneducated women are equiped with common sense. They know when to talk and when not to. They know how to resolve issues without fighting. But most educated women feel entitled, entitled, and entitled.

11. THEY ARE BETTER COOK:

Whenever there’s a movement against women who can’t cook and how they are unworthy of marriage, it’s the educated women that usually kick against such movements, not the uneducated ones.

While an educated woman would readily settle for eating out more often than not, an uneducated woman would rather do some cooking. As you know, this is more economical and virtuous than eating out.

12. THEY ARE VERY PRAYERFUL:

Uneducated women can pray for Africa. Call them religious; the truth is that most men will prefer a woman who prays for him to a woman who doesn’t.

These and many more are why educated girls seem to be having a hard time securing good men for themselves.

Education shouldn’t be the bane of virtue. 

There’s nothing wrong with being educated and humble, graceful, submissive, etc. As glaring as this truth is, the acclaimed “21st century” educated women would rather feed their vanities.

Uneducated women will continue to have the day as long as the educated ones concern themselves more with feeding their vanities. Just imagine what happens if educated women adopt the characters of those uneducated women.